Thecuy, pernah dengar mengenai fragile ego? Fragile ego refers to a self-image you create that’s rooted in the feeling you need to be superior to others, just to feel safe.
When it comes to fragile ego or a weak ego, men also often have it. One way to spot it is to pay close attention to the words they use. Here are some examples of phrases often used by men with fragile egos; check them out!
1. “Sibuk banget sih. Sudah nggak butuh aku ya?”
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This is a typical phrase often used when a partner is busy. Unintentionally, this statement reveals a fragile ego, as it conveys blame and a desire to be the top priority.
Feeling disappointed when a partner or someone you’re courting is busy isn’t a problem in itself. However, it’s also important to recognize that people’s schedules vary. By saying this, they reveal their dependence on you and come across as not respecting your own commitments.
2. “Kenapa harus dibesar-besarkan sih?”
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This phrase often pops up during an argument. Men with fragile egos tend to use it when they feel pressured by the person they’re talking to.
Citing Cottonwood Psychology, this phrase is very effective in unhealthy relationships. The shift in focus actually turns the pressure onto the person trying to address the issue, making it hard to resolve the problem completely.
3. “Nggak banyak lho pria yang betah kalau kamu kayak begitu.”
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This statement makes it seem like the man is speaking for most men. It’s a typical sign of a fragile ego because it positions him as different from the majority of other men.
In truth, by saying this, he denies that the discomfort is something he feels himself. Besides denial of his own feelings, this phrase can also potentially intimidate his partner and make her feel inferior.
4. “Coba aja kamu mengubah X, pasti kamu bisa lebih baik lagi.”
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Men with fragile egos also tend to be controlling. According to Grazia, this hypothetical statement is actually about exerting control rather than offering constructive advice to improve you. What they really want is for their partner to change into someone who fits their own standards.
5. “Kamu tuh kurang feminin deh.”
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This phrase is also a sign of someone’s fragile ego. Men with this tendency easily feel threatened by women who appear strong and independent. When that happens, this is their go‑to line.
These are some examples of phrases often used by men with fragile egos. If this happens, you can try to approach by expressing the discomfort you feel and discussing a solution, okay, Thecuy.
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