Orang tua pasti ingin anaknya menjadi pribadi yang baik bagi dirinya sendiri dan lingkungan sekitar. Pola asuh orang tua yang baik sangat menentukan bagaimana anak tersebut tumbuh dan berkembang sejak kecil.
Agar keinginan ini terwujud, sebagai orang tua bisa menerapkan beberapa kebiasaan yang dilakukan orang tua cerdas saat mendidik anak berikut ini. Simak!
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<h2 class="fw-bold fs-5">1. Teaching children to do good toward others</h2>
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<p>Citing <em>Your Tango</em>, smart parents instill the habit of doing good in their children. They do not always give gifts for the kindness the child does, but ask them to record it.</p>
The reason is to make children understand that the good deed itself is the gift. This approach is more effective and efficient than providing extensive explanations about kindness to children.
2. Setting a positive example for children
Serving as a role model for children / Photo: magnific.com/freepik
A further habit smart parents practice is modeling good behavior. When parents act kindly in front of their children, the children are likely to copy those actions.
Therapist Eli Harwood observed, “Empathy is learned through empathy. When our children attune to our emotional state, it teaches them to extend the same kindness to others.”
Such parents understand that when they teach empathy, their children will experience its benefits and extend the same kindness to those around them.
3. Parents validating the good deeds of children
Parents acknowledge children’s good deeds / Photo: magnific.com/freepik
Finally, parents consistently encourage good behavior in children by attentively observing their actions.
When a child shares food with a classmate, parents can acknowledge it by saying, “Look at how you shared your food with your friend. That’s truly kind.”
When they receive that acknowledgment from their parents, they become habituated to performing good deeds continually.
These are the habits that smart parents often adopt when raising their children. Thecuy can put them into practice at home too! Hope you find it helpful!
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