4 Metode untuk Mengenali Wanita dengan Kecerdasan Emosi Tinggi dari Cara Mereka Mengirim Pesan kepada Pria Saat Mendekati

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By anindya

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The advancement of information technology brings numerous benefits to life. Nowadays, there are many online dating sites to help everyone find their life partner.

According to an annual survey of dating sites in America, 31 percent of men and women met their most recent date online. They started the interaction online.

This often raises questions about the most effective way to date in the digital world. Interestingly, dating experts reveal that online conversations can help assess a person’s emotional intelligence.

Women with high emotional intelligence have several special ways of sending messages to men during the flirty stage. Citing YourTango, here is the list. Take a look!

1. Think Before Sending a Message

Cara mengenali perempuan cerdas secara emosional saat mengirim pesan yang pertama adalah mereka akan berpikir terlebih dahulu sebelum mengirim pesan.

How women with high EQ send messages during flirtation/Photo: Magnific.com/tirachardz

The first sign of an emotionally intelligent woman when messaging is that she pauses to think before hitting send.

They are very cautious individuals because the man they are getting to know is not yet fully aware of their character or sense of humor. Therefore, they review their messages repeatedly, double-check, and are careful before sending them.

Relationship coach Laurel House advises imagining a text message before sending it. After all, texting is different from speaking face to face.

“Your text message doesn’t convey tone or facial expressions, no matter how many emojis you add. Read it aloud, without vocal inflection, and decide if it comes across as intended,” she said.

2. Use Emoji Wisely

cara mengenali perempuan dengan EQ tinggi dilihat dari cara kirim pesan saat pdkt dengan pria adalah menggunakan emoji secara bijak.

How women with high EQ send messages during flirtation/Photo: Magnific.com/stockking

Women with high EQ use emojis wisely. They understand that emojis can be an effective complement to a message.

According to Match statistics, users who send friendly emojis are much more likely to date in real life. Smile or wink emojis help the recipient understand that the sender is joking or sending a flirtatious signal.

Dating coach Neely Steinberg says that using emojis is better than saying “haha” or “lol,” which some people find annoying.

“However, keep in mind that too many emojis can make others lose interest. Avoid using more than one emoji in a single text message. An exclamation mark can also help,” she added.

For example, sending a message like “Goodbye!” is considered better than a plain “Goodbye” or “Goodbye!!!”

3. Pay Attention to the Style of Text Messages

cara mengenali perempuan dengan EQ tinggi dilihat dari cara kirim pesan saat pdkt dengan pria adalah memerhatikan gaya pesan si pria terlebih dahulu sebelum membalasnya.

How women with high EQ send messages during flirtation/Photo: Magnific.com

Laurel House says most people reply to messages the way they themselves would prefer. However, emotionally intelligent women pay attention to the man’s messaging style first before responding.

If he compliments her appearance, she might also seek the same kind of physical praise. If he sends short messages, she probably isn’t the type who enjoys lengthy texting. Just make sure his level of interest matches hers.

One good way to do this is to compare his text messages with the length of his messages. People with similar levels of interest usually both feel excited to reply.

4. Answer the Phone When It’s Important

cara mengenali perempuan dengan EQ tinggi dilihat dari cara kirim pesan saat pdkt dengan pria adalah beralih ke telepon jika ada hal penting yang perlu dibicarakan

How women with high EQ send messages during flirtation/Photo: Magnific.com

A sign of a woman with high EQ is knowing when it’s the right time to switch to a phone call for something important. They don’t rush to call every day during the dating phase. They are willing to wait patiently until the next date arrives.

Ladies, here’s how to spot a woman with high EQ based on the way she messages during the dating phase. What do you think?

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