Anak yang tangguh adalah hasil dari pola pendidikan yang diterapkan secara konsisten oleh orang tuanya. Sebagai orang tua, mereka memahami bahwa seiring dengan pertumbuhannya, anak harus dapat mengatasi kesulitan yang ada. Melatih mental tangguh anak bisa dimulai dari kebiasaan-kebiasaan kecil, Thecuy.
Suzan J. Song, seorang psikiater lulusan pelatihan di Harvard dan Stanford, menyebutkan dalam CNBC Make It, beberapa contoh kebiasaan yang diterapkan oleh orang tua pada anaknya agar dapat tumbuh dengan mental yang kuat. Simak beberapa di antaranya!
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<p>Letting children experience success and failure/ Photo: Pexels.com/Kampus Production</p>
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<p>Both good and bad experiences are equally important, Thecuy. When a child succeeds in achieving something, they will feel proud of their abilities. On the other hand, teach them the importance of humility. When they fail, children will learn to accept and correct their mistakes.</p>
According to Song, parents need to give children the opportunity to struggle a little, practice, make mistakes, and ultimately become better. That way, they can learn about the process, discipline, and consistency in achieving success.
2. Mengajarkan Anak Hubungan yang Sehat
Teaching children healthy relationships/ Photo: Pexels.com/Alex Green
Not only in terms of abilities, the habits applied need to teach children about the importance of healthy relationships. Because, when children grow up, they may face problems involving others. Therefore, a resilient child needs to know how to build trust, resolve conflicts, ask for help, set boundaries, and maintain close relationships.
3. Memberikan Anak Kesempatan untuk Berguna bagi Orang Lain
Giving children the opportunity to be useful to others/ Photo: Pexels.com/PAULO de GUZMAN
These technical and social abilities can be trained by giving children the opportunity to be useful to others. For example, teaching children to feed pets, help siblings when they need assistance, participate in volunteer programs, and so on.
The opportunity to become a beneficial person will remind them that even when facing difficult times, they still have the ability to contribute, build relationships, and be meaningful to others.
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